This is a very simplified post on the two problems that women must confront in themselves if they desire a husband.
There’s two main points that most Christians miss:
1. If a woman is having trouble being asked out then she needs to work on her physical attractiveness OR if she has a lot of men hanging around her but not asking her out then she is aiming too high.
Men are attracted to beauty. Exercise, nutrition, touch of make up, flattering feminine clothing, and all of these things to improve her physical attractiveness will help.
If she has men hanging around her then she is already physically attractive, but it is likely that she is not attracted to those that are around her. She will have to recalibrate her attraction sensors to the men around her instead. As an observer says, eliminating any hint of the entitlement, self delusion and princess mentality is key.
2. If a woman is having trouble staying in a relationship that is directed towards marriage then she needs to work on how to become more of a godly woman.
That would be a woman who is respectful, submissive, encouraging, and willing to go above and beyond for her man. If she is easily prone to criticism, gossip, and all other manner of unrighteous behavior then this will not help her case to get a man to ask her out.
These are two different responses to two different problems that women must be aware of. You need both to get into a relationship to where a man is going to want to commit to you.