You have heard that it was said, ‘Women cannot love a man the way he wants to be loved.’ But I say to you that this secular wisdom is both a deception and misattribution.**
The reason that it is a deception is that the modern man, according to feminists, is to be brought up in the role of a woman. Men are taught to be like women, and women are taught to be like men. Men were also taught to want to be loved because women want to be loved. According to the Scriptures in Ephesians 5 and 1 Peter 3, men, especially in a marriage relationship, are to be respected. The desire of love from a woman as a man is a deception.
Likewise, this is also a fundamental misattribution because the unconditional love is part of the human condition that a man needs is only a love that God can meet. No woman can love a man according to what he needs in his soul because she is not God. Placing this burden on a wife will inevitably leave any man disappointed and disillusioned. A man must seek love that only God can give from God Himself through the spiritual disciplines of Scripture, prayer, meditation, fasting, and so on.
Therefore, this secular wisdom is false in a Christian world view.
** Written in the vein of Sermon on the Mount.