The rising popularity of revenge regret videos

There’s several types of videos going around that are pretty popular nowadays. For instance,

Girl Friendzones The Nice Guy, She Lives To Regret Her Decision

Gold Digger Dumps Broke Boyfriend, Then Regrets Her Decision

These videos have some good lessons under the guise of saying “don’t be with women who are using you for your money” or “don’t try to friend a woman into a relationship who treats you as her emotional tampon.”

But on the other hand, they also don’t tell men what is attractive. A man may still think the incorrect things about relationships even while learning this “lesson” and still be in deep doo doo because his framework about understanding what attracts women hasn’t changed at all. Similarly, a man who acts the way that the actor does in these videos would be unlikely to actually get into another relationship in the first place, and if he did it might be as dysfunctional as the first if he didn’t change at all and was “just himself.”

The major bad part about these types of videos is they tend to be wrapped up in over-dramatic “get back at the other person” type of mentality which is very harmful. If someone doesn’t want to be with you just leave and move on. In this respect, revenge porn is much like bitterness that keeps on giving. Ultimately, I’ve seen some men get in the cycle of bitterness and hating women and then that’s all they can think about and mull on. Leave the revenge and bitterness alone. Move on with your life.

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5 Responses to The rising popularity of revenge regret videos

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  2. johnson j says:

    “revenge porn” already has a meaning, i.e. posting video of the other person having sex or being naked. You can’t use the term “revenge porn” as if its only metaphorically porn like “fear porn.” Revenge porn already means literal porn.

    I can tell from the thumbnails This is basically “bobs and vegene” herassment by an Indian.

  3. @ johnson j

    “revenge porn” already has a meaning, i.e. posting video of the other person having sex or being naked. You can’t use the term “revenge porn” as if its only metaphorically porn like “fear porn.” Revenge porn already means literal porn.

    Updated to “revenge regret.”

    They technically do fall under the category of “revenge porn” in the way that it gets back at and excites the person doing it which is why I initially grouped it into that category. But I think this clarifies it a bit better.

  4. fuzziewuzziebear says:

    I could not get a minute into either video. Is this what men are expected to deal with?

  5. Jack says:

    Dhar Mann has 15.7 M subscribers! Pretty impressive!

    True, he’s not dispensing the whole Red Pill, but perhaps this is about as much truth as people can stomach these days. Actually, these messages about gold diggers, etc. are pretty old, but he’s breathed new life into them.

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