Category Archives: Godly mindset & lifestyle

A lament for men

A poignant post from Instagram that resonates with a lot of young men. A lament. NYC is probably the worst city to live in for mid-20s/30s evangelical Christian guys. Now I understand why more and King’s College guys are leaving … Continue reading

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Frame is no frame without a mission

Ran across this question on one of the RP reddits. For example, a guy I know from college went into a STEM field. He is now married and working a steady 9-5 job that he likes. His wife owns a … Continue reading

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Modeling is the primary form of headship

This isn’t a new thing, but it’s just one thing I’ve been realizing more and more when you see discipleship in action. In general, most people only believe words when they are backed up with consisted and relevant action. This … Continue reading

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Disciplecord and general well being

Hope everyone is doing well! A bunch of the guys on RPChristians and some other places have started a place for discipleship for both men and women on Discord, so if you need a place for iron sharpening iron during … Continue reading

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No, your congregation does not preach “biblical headship”

I’m still here but have a lot of real life stuff going on. The creator of the RPC recently posted on this, so I’m sharing a part of it. Definitely give it a read if you have time as it’s … Continue reading

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Women’s attraction to men’s musculature

Since we were talking about this whole issue of generating attractiveness and meetcutes recently, let’s look at the practical side of things. A few years ago, I explored the way men used the numerical scale to estimate the attractiveness of … Continue reading

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Generating and handling attraction from the opposite sex

Generally speaking, 9 times out of 10 if a single man or woman is hanging around another single of the opposite sex they’re definitely attracted and interested in a relationship. Some are more obvious than others (“get a room” comments … Continue reading

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Jumping back to meet cute scenarios

Previously on meet cutes, we looked at the commonness of having women be initially attracted to you. In general, I think that it’s not that common for the majority of men, though there are always some percentage of the population … Continue reading

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Revisiting dread in the Bible with an anti-chivalry lens

In the previous (long) post on dread, I outlined several concepts surrounding dread in marriages. To define dread, it’s generally a disconcerting feeling that results in a woman/wife when her husband becomes more sexually attractive (often interpreted in a bad … Continue reading

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Why we are here

I initially wrote this as a comment for reddit, but it’s worth a post since many men don’t understand the various interactions with lots of the different men’s blogs. Over the past 100+ years (or perhaps 1000+ years as Aaron … Continue reading

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