Category Archives: Godly mindset & lifestyle

Practical mailbag: should a man be just friends?

A reader writes in: Was curious if there was any blogs regarding being ‘just friends’ with girls a guy’s interested in. I know in Rationale Male they say to decline the offer. was curious if its the same view point … Continue reading

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Women’s attraction to masculine men

This article from psychology today looks at some of the research on attraction. Some researchers have suggested that masculine characteristics in men’s faces, such as a strong jaw or a heavy brow, are associated with good physical health and strength, … Continue reading

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What did they expect?

Men are afraid to mentor women after #metoo LeanIn.org and SurveyMonkey’s new #MentorHer poll reveals Friday that 60% of male managers report feeling “too nervous” about being accused of harassment to interact with women in “common workplace” activities such as … Continue reading

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The Demise of Marriage: Cause and Effect

I can’t remember any one person having tried to write down all of the negative effects about the demise of marriage. This is basically a list to try to write down most if not all of them at least in … Continue reading

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The Lord on vows and divorce

One of the interesting arguments I’ve come across when counseling/giving advice to people in rough marriages is that “God cares more about the people more than the marriage.” An interesting take that seems to be true on the surface, but … Continue reading

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Suffering is normal

This is from the Biblical Masculinity Blueprint book, but strikingly relevant to Dalrock’s latest post on the promises of fake Christianity. One of the common themes that we see throughout the Old Testament is the promise of God that if … Continue reading

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Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the Burden is hilarious

Seen this article go around the web in multiple forms. Toxic masculinity—and the persistent idea that feelings are a “female thing”—has left a generation of straight men stranded on emotionally-stunted island, unable to forge intimate relationships with other men. It’s … Continue reading

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The bigger can of worms in the Caster Semenya issue

The Caster Semenya issue. The mentioned NYT article argues that is discriminatory, which it pretty much is. However, there are bigger issues afoot. I’ve actually followed this a decade prior to the huge blow up a week or so ago … Continue reading

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Teachable: one of the most critical traits in vetting a wife

Teachable is one of the least discussed traits that should be high up on the list. The evidence for it is obvious: Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for … Continue reading

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Women and voting

There’s been a lot said about the downfall of Western civilization being the introduction of voting rights to women in the 1920s. It seems to be logical. The government and government entitlements have been growing since women voting was introduced. … Continue reading

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