Category Archives: Godly mindset & lifestyle

Make it happen

Scott has a post named June Cleaver might be unmarriagable right now. It’s likely the largest discussion in the past few years about the factors that go into finding a spouse that is suitable for marriage from the perspective of … Continue reading

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Engagement and marriage

Engagement and marriage are two separately defined concepts in the Scripture which are most interesting to study. “Dates” and “Dating” and “Courtship” don’t exist. They’re made up. It’s not that these concepts are “bad” in any meaning of the word, … Continue reading

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Be a wise conversationalist, not an interviewer

Scott recently posted on a comment from Elspeth on how a man came off as “interview-y” when getting to know a woman and on date. As someone with a decent amount of personal experience in the matter of vetting, there … Continue reading

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Sexless marriage and other relationship statistics

Dalrock’s recent post on Wilcox motivated me to dredge this up from my drafts folder about 8 months ago. According to Nicholas B Wolfinger, one of the authors: Approximately 85 percent of Americans will marry in their lifetimes. Most will … Continue reading

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Insecurity underlies the human condition and reveals our need for a Savior

I wanted to expand on Donal’s post Tissue Paper Walls. “Much of this insecurity comes from the gap in physical prowess between men and women. We men are much more capable of defending ourselves and imposing our will on our … Continue reading

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Thoughts on wisdom and omniscience

One thing I’ve been mulling over more recently is human behavior and statistical probability. I’ve written on vetting and statistics before, so this was going more deeply into it. Statistical models tell us the probability that any random person exhibiting … Continue reading

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Destructive tendencies

I was mulling over how everything that goes against God’s Word is destructive. What brought this up was a review over the times I’ve been to churches with female pastors. Unsurprisingly, they’re all small, waning in attendance, or dying off … Continue reading

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The relationship issues that get in the way of following Christ

Still quite busy with RL work which is why I haven’t been posting much. Snapper has touched on a couple posts recently such as Belief versus Scripture. A while back, when I was going through the issues with my pastor, … Continue reading

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Insulated

Donal’s post on Sympathy and Understanding talks about how married men tend to be insulated once they marry. Which drives me to the subject of this post- men shouldn’t expect much in the way of understanding from those around them … Continue reading

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Most men are not afraid of commitment

I realized something when mulling over commitment. Most men are not afraid of commitment. The reality is that most men are afraid of a lack of commitment from women and the consequences thereof. It is pure projection from women. We … Continue reading

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