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Modern Complementarianism weasels
Pretty busy week for posts. This is one of the more sad examples of probably well-intentioned complementarians arguing for headship but denying it’s power. A commenter named “Petrina” appears out of the blue on the chivalry is anti-Christian post with … Continue reading
Double standards around sex: the purest example of the feminization of Christianity
From Reddit’s sub “Christian Marriage.” Women, please don’t deny your husbands — 0 upvotes, 50% upvoted Here’s the post: Sex for a husband is so essential. Please don’t undermine how important that is to a husband who desires his wife, … Continue reading
The failure of chivalry in Biblical marriage, works and desire, and the failure of game
To tack on to Dalrock and Cane in the most recent post, here’s my general analysis. Chivalry, as virtuous as it may seem to some, is essentially pandering to women and/or your wife. 1 Cor 7:32 I would like you … Continue reading
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Marriage structures
This topic is very important, and I have put a lot of thought into this before writing this post. The main question that I am going to address in this post is: Is being ‘too controlling’ a sin for leadership … Continue reading
A detailed timeline and how to guide on the process of finding a wife
This is going to be a monster post. Read at your leisure. Send it to other Christian men if you think it’s useful. edit: Updated 6/2016. What to look for in a prospective Christian wife In general, there have already … Continue reading
Boundaries
This post was supposed to be released late 2014 but I’ve delayed it a bit. Hence, it may refer to posts from 7-8+ months ago. I was going to write a post on these 3 topics about 2 months ago, … Continue reading
Scrupulosity, boundaries, and saying no
One of the commentors at Donal’s posted about Scrupulosity a while ago. Here’s the “definition” from wikipedia. Scrupulosity is a psychological disorder characterized by pathological guilt about moral or religious issues. It is personally distressing, objectively dysfunctional, and often accompanied … Continue reading
Emotional engagement
Expressing negative emotions It’s funny cause we talk so much about the negative implications of feeling-based thinking that pervades the churchianity and society. However, we also don’t acknowledge God from an emotional level. Engaging God on an emotional level is … Continue reading
Overcoming the Anger Phase
One reader wrote to me about some hardship with the anger phase. I’m going to go through the e-mail and address it. This should be helpful kick in the butt, hopefully, for many men not just the e-mailer. So I’ve … Continue reading
Length of time prior to engagement and marriage
CHero asks in the comments: Soooo….how long should someone do the “boyfriend/girlfriend” thing before a decision to get engaged/be married be? My job’s alright and if I get my act together (and even while I’m still kind of a mess), … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity 