Update: I’ve written a book based on many of the experiences on this blog to help Christian men: The Biblical Masculinity Blueprint: A Christian Man’s Guide to Attraction, Relationships, and Marriage in a Messed-up World
I’m mainly putting up this page because the most of the actionable posts are buried on the blog now that I’ve published more than 350 posts.
Much of our cultural understanding of relationships is wrong! We need to look to the Bible to see how Jesus acted for relationships and marriage.
Understanding why attraction is important to a marriage.
The main posts on how to grow in godly masculinity, prepare for a marriage, and look for a wife.
- My 5 step process to maturity in relationships
- A detailed timeline and how-to guide on the process of finding a wife
- Review of vetting, statistics on virginity in the Church, and pledges
- The headship conversation
- Discussing sex and virginity with a potential spouse is important
- Questions and topics to learn about your prospective spouse
- Masculine immaturity is placing responsibilities before roles
If you want to look at other posts I would consider essential, check out the ‘mission framework’ category in the categorized posts section.
Bonus: Dalrock’s post on how feminist ideas have infected the Church, specifically CBMW (which is the “complementarian” position). The true Biblical position is most similar to Patriarchy (and by Patriarchy I mean male led families and the Church).