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A Christian understanding of attraction, and the role it plays in marriage: Dominion is baked into the cake. Part 4
For those of you who have been following this blog for a long time, I’ve consistently refined this article as my understanding of the nature of God’s Creation of attraction Part 3 and the differences between sexual attraction and arousal … Continue reading
Modern Complementarianism weasels
Pretty busy week for posts. This is one of the more sad examples of probably well-intentioned complementarians arguing for headship but denying it’s power. A commenter named “Petrina” appears out of the blue on the chivalry is anti-Christian post with … Continue reading
Where have all the good men gone #233548527
Whenever I see these, I always wonder when they’ll eventually stop. This one coming from the wall street journal. When my daughters were small they had a favorite bit of doggerel that prefigured some early feminist leanings. “Girls go to … Continue reading
Compilation of advice for men struggling in their marriage
This information is spread all across the web in various places. I thought it would be a good idea to compile a list here since this is one of the most often asked questions for men coming to these parts. … Continue reading
Sexual needs
I want to build off BGR’s post 6 ways a wife can understand her husband’s sexual needs. First, in Jewish culture and in the OT, sex is a wife’s right the husband must give her. Exodus 21:10 If he takes … Continue reading
You’re not responsible for a woman’s emotions
This post is somewhat of a follow-up and reminder of a very old post her emotions and her emotions part 2. Essentially, it’s very difficult for men to understand that you’re not responsible for a woman’s emotions. You’re not responsible … Continue reading
Intelligent submission is not required
Wayne Grudem is a professor of theological and religious studies. He is also one of the general editors for the ESV translation of the Bible. Wayne Grudem similarly portrays complementarian decision making as, in the vast majority of cases, an … Continue reading
Intuitive heuristics: Be THE man
Christian men and husbands generally have the masculinity beaten out of them by the culture and churchianity. Thus, it’s very difficult for men and husbands to learn how to be strong, masculine, Christian man. I stumbled upon this when I … Continue reading
Is BPD just women with too much freedom revisited
Back in 2013, when SSM’s site was going strong, Cail Corishev came up with (?) a theory that women with BPD was either strongly correlated and/or caused by too much freedom. I found this quite interesting and commented over there, … Continue reading
A good fit
Donal’s Masculine Monday touched some on the concept of abundance mentality and how it relates to decreased thinking about what woman care about you. In general, I think abundance mentality is the wrong way to approach relationships. The thing with … Continue reading
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